.357 gets superior speed simply by burning more, slower powder. At the end of the day, you can only get more speed by burning more powder.
As a handloader, I can tell you the .357 with a magnum-type powder (WW296, Alliant 2400) uses roughly 3x the amount of propellant the 9mm uses. The 9mm burns about as much powder as .38 Special does, but is more efficient IMO, because it runs at higher pressures.
Don't forget revolvers don't have to feed bullets from a magazine. My Glocks are boringly reliable with almost any bullet shape, but you can still stuff a wider, larger hollow point into the chamber of a .357. As was stated, my S&W M-19 doesn't care if it's fed wadcutters, SWCs, hollowpoints or full metal jackets. Not many autos are that forgiving.
That said, my go-to woods and bumming gun is still my G-17. More ammo, more comfortable to shoot, and I have more experience with it. I'm perfectly comfortable with the 9mm round, and I think 124gr +P JHPs are fine for my needs. Of course, come fall hunting season, the .357 will be the go-to!
Oh, and my chronograph can attest to the 1200+ fps with a 158gr .357 loads in a 4" barrel. This is borderline for my comfort in the K-frame S&W; a GP-100 or 686 would be great. And I also think it is too much for SD uses; most 158gr .357 bullets are too tough IMO. A 140gr bullet at 1250 seems to me like a perfect compromise between bullet weight, speed and controlability in the revolver.
Lastly, I'd like to note that the really hot +P 124gr 9mms (Speer Gold Dots are rated at 1250-fps in this load; Double-Taps are hotter, Winchester Rangers in 127 are pretty close) to me feel more like shooting hardball .45 ACP in a 5" 1911. There goes your "lower recoil" advantage. It is still softer than most .357 loadings though.
As a handloader, I can tell you the .357 with a magnum-type powder (WW296, Alliant 2400) uses roughly 3x the amount of propellant the 9mm uses. The 9mm burns about as much powder as .38 Special does, but is more efficient IMO, because it runs at higher pressures.
Don't forget revolvers don't have to feed bullets from a magazine. My Glocks are boringly reliable with almost any bullet shape, but you can still stuff a wider, larger hollow point into the chamber of a .357. As was stated, my S&W M-19 doesn't care if it's fed wadcutters, SWCs, hollowpoints or full metal jackets. Not many autos are that forgiving.
That said, my go-to woods and bumming gun is still my G-17. More ammo, more comfortable to shoot, and I have more experience with it. I'm perfectly comfortable with the 9mm round, and I think 124gr +P JHPs are fine for my needs. Of course, come fall hunting season, the .357 will be the go-to!
Oh, and my chronograph can attest to the 1200+ fps with a 158gr .357 loads in a 4" barrel. This is borderline for my comfort in the K-frame S&W; a GP-100 or 686 would be great. And I also think it is too much for SD uses; most 158gr .357 bullets are too tough IMO. A 140gr bullet at 1250 seems to me like a perfect compromise between bullet weight, speed and controlability in the revolver.
Lastly, I'd like to note that the really hot +P 124gr 9mms (Speer Gold Dots are rated at 1250-fps in this load; Double-Taps are hotter, Winchester Rangers in 127 are pretty close) to me feel more like shooting hardball .45 ACP in a 5" 1911. There goes your "lower recoil" advantage. It is still softer than most .357 loadings though.