I've noticed that too, all the talk about bigger calibers seems to sway a lot of people into thinking they need more. Of course there's always an 'expert' in the group that says you gotta have a .45 (same guy saying you had to have a .40 a year and a half ago). Sure seems to push a lot of people in that direction. I still stick with the 9 and use it for everything. So far I'm getting along fine with my Cougar (and I really like that gun, it's nice to carry a gun you actually like). I keep toying with the idea of something smaller like the Kahr or maybe a .38 like the Cheetah or pk380. I have to find a case where I could (and would) carry the smaller gun and not the Cougar though or what's the point? Then I just have a gun that I won't even shoot because I don't like it as well as the others.Then she joined a gun range and kept listening to other folk with .45's,,,
Now she carries a handgun whose recoil is so bad she will not practice with it.
One the side, I was with two neighbors who carry and we were discussing guns. The one says he carries a .40 s&w. The other says he just carries a 9mm. I told him that's what I carry, nothing wrong with the 9. The other guy says "Yea, well I don't know, I got the 40 cause you want to be sure you have enough you know." His first words were his most accurate. ;-) Same guy also bought a Glock ... because the Glock was what everyone said he should buy (or maybe he watched US Marshalls to many times - hehe). Nothing against Glocks, I just doubt he really put much thought into the gun he bought, he just knew the name Glock.