Like many others here, I also find .40 to be on the stout end of the spectrum and these days typically only acquire .45s and 9mms. I also recommend that you think hard about the way you're handling the Shield. Not to say that you aren't holding it correctly, but it's possible that the perceived recoil will change if you can get a higher hold and tighter grip. I think figuring out how to grip different handguns properly takes some time and requires a lot of handling to see what's comfortable and effective for the shooter. If you've already got your grip down and it's still punishing, then maybe the gun/caliber combo is no good for you and there's no shame in that.
It does seem true that many people have gravitated away from .40 and I'm also one of those people. My first handgun was a .40 and it was great, but I'll never see myself owning one again. I'm too heavily invested in .45 and 9mm to take on another caliber that really has no benefits over the others.
It does seem true that many people have gravitated away from .40 and I'm also one of those people. My first handgun was a .40 and it was great, but I'll never see myself owning one again. I'm too heavily invested in .45 and 9mm to take on another caliber that really has no benefits over the others.