"You can't tell me what to do! You can't You can't You can't You can't...........!"
Truth is, you
can't tell me what to do. You can bully me into temporary compliance by issuing me a ticket or arresting me, but the truth is that if I find a law obnoxious, I ignore it, and there's not a thing you or anyone else can do about that. If I find a law agreeable, I obey it, but not because I have a threat of punishment hanging over me, but because I agree with the law. But nothing you do or say can
force me to obey a law, and that's the simple truth. I know that I am the only person morally responsible for my actions, and I live my life accordingly, and no amount of coercion or brow-beating will change that.
In my opinion, the lack of respect for the law that is predominant in our country stems from the fact that so many laws get passed which should never get passed. If you want people to respect the law, you have to make respectable laws. As things stand, so many things are against the law that your average citizen can't spend a day without breaking one or more of them unintentionally or unknowingly. The worst kinds of laws are the ones that cannot be enforced effectively, or understood and obeyed objectively. It erodes respect both for lawgivers and for the enforcers of the laws.
Once we move away from giving in to the desire to get the power to tell others what to do, and we only criminalize actions that violate someone else's rights by fraud or force, then we will have the groundwork for a just society were the law gets respect.