Being outed.

Haven't had that happen, but I have a fellow shooter friend who constantly announced when he was carrying concealed, and quizzed me and our friends openly in public whether we were carrying. He did it almost every time we went to breakfast - our usual social open meeting places being restaurants.

I finally cured him by explaining privately that concealed means concealed. He really didn't realize what he was doing. Now, there are no problems in that area.

BTW, here in NY state, concealed is the only legal way to carry.
 
"I "out" myself to anti-gun people every chance I get."

Damned straight (so to speak!)

Most people I know already know that I own guns, and quite a few of them know that I carry a gun.

It doesn't bother me if someone I know tells someone else that I'm a gunowner. Depending on the situation, it can bother me if someone tells a third party that I'm carrying a gun.
 
In general I like to keep it quiet except to other known gun-owners--mostly because I worry the likelihood of my vehicle or home becoming a target for break-in goes up. Also, you never know if there's an armed nut in the crowd who may think it's time to prove something at your expense.
 
At work, I don't generally recommend talking guns unless you know everybody at the office, or at least the ones who make the personnel decisions, are gun people. Some co-workers might complain about "hostile work environment;" some employers might decide to start random vehicle searches.

As far as converting anti's, I try that every so often. I usually try to mix factual and emotional arguments, as many anti's don't respond to facts alone.

I'll tell them about my cousin, whose German Shepherd scared off a guy who turned out to be a serial rapist, but who had conned his way into her house, and how her police department advised her to get a gun since she was about 20 minutes from their normal patrol routes.

I'll tell them about my best friend, who had to scare off three would-be carjackers.

I'll tell them about my ex-wife, who had a pair of stalkers follow her home while I was deployed. Our Rott-Shepherd held them at bay while she retrieved a Beretta 92 Brigadier.

I'll ask them what they would do if an intruder broke in. If they say they wouldn't shoot, even in self-defense, I'll ask if they have children, or pets. (Amazingly, there are people who might not shoot an attacker, but who would defend the Chihuahua...)

But I am not telling an anti that I carry.

And so far, none have noticed, that I know of.
 
Never had it happen, can't imagine why it would really. If someone is "outing" me to an anti-gunner, doesn't that mean that they are anti-gun also? If not, why would they be "outing" me? If they're anti-gun themselves, why am I hanging out with them and their anti-gun friends? Odd situation.

Ultimately, I couldn't care less. I am what I am, I am who I am. If they'd like to have a polite conversation and can have a dialogue without getting stupid, I'll talk, but I couldn't care less if they or anyone else approves of me or my guns.
 
To everyone that knows me, I am already "out' as pro gun. If you don't know me, but met me, you'd know it very soon. Like an above poster said, around here you got outed as being anti gun. If you are anti gun, we are probably not friends.
 
"I don't generally recommend talking guns unless you know everybody at the office"

True, but after 37 years as a state employee (and not really needing to work anymore) I still have an NRA calendar hanging in my office where it can be seen from the hall.

Even way back when, I used to hang a Green Top Sporting Goods/Game & Inland Fisheries calendar in my office. Almost everyone in the area has been by Green Top and knows what it is - it has a huge GUNS sign on top of the building.

It was sort of amazing years ago to discover how many gun owners and hunters there were in a so-called 'helping profession' typically assumed to be staffed with do-gooder social worker types. No, we aren't social workers.

John
 
I out myself .As posted by someone else I don't care if someone knows I like guns or like to shoot. But I would not tell them I carry. As far as vehicle searches at work let em. In Oklahoma no business or employer can prevent me from having a gun fully loaded and locked in my car.
 
Sometimes I get into arguments even with other gun advocates--to me gun ownership is a lot like religion and politics--I prefer to stay out of discussions unless I know you well (or stumble onto a forum like this). I simply believe that the second amendment not only gives us the right to bear arms--but implicitly states it's a responsibility to do so as the ultimate expression of a true democracy where the people serve as a check and balance.
 
Depends on the situation I guess. Most people I know are aware that I own guns. If I'm asked if I'm carrying, I usually answer in the affirmative because it's asked by someone I already know who knows I own em anyhow.
 
Came out of the woods a few years back...

I had been following hounds with a friend that AM...We had treed one small bear that we let go...Helped him load his dogs, and then hopped in my CJ for the two hour ride home...Stopped to get gas at the 'yuppie' store across town...Was pumping my gas and a woman pulls up in a Volvo, gets out and makes it half way across the road, then stops dead like a dear in headlights...Turns around, hops back in her car, and shoots gravel on the way out...

I walk in the store and pay for the gas...I asked the woman behind the counter (whom I had known for years) what that was all about...She simply giggled and pointed at the SBH on my belt...

Out?

Yeah...

I'm 'out'...

:cool:
 
I'm not sure the term "outing" is apropos. First off, it once carried the implication that the person being "outed" had something to be ashamed of, or for which they could suffer negative social consequences. That's really rare these days for gun owners.

The second problem I have with the term is that it was used frequently to expose people who otherwise didn't consent. It had a certain vindictive and punitive connotation in some quarters.
 
+1 on what Skans said.

I don't get into peoples faces but I have no problem letting people know I like guns. Every time someone finds out it's a chance to inform about the sport and educate people About guns. Each 'outing' is a chance to remove some of the bad stigma around guns. And if it turns someone off about me, well then so be it .... I yams what I yams. :cool:
 
I don't have a problem with people outing as long as it is done in a tactful manner that sheds light on gun owners and not a dark shadow. There is already enough bad press with movies and news stories. Some Antis seem to think that just because you own a firearm you are an evil person and are getting ready to go on a shooting rampage. Too many stories of a person with a CC getting angry because they were cut of and they decide to pull a gun and brandish or even worse decide to shoot it.
 
Each 'outing' is a chance to remove some of the bad stigma around guns.

Tru fax. Knowing that a normal person just like them is a "gun person" goes a long ways towards stripping stereotypes. I usually follow up the "outing" by asking if they want to come to the range sometime, because remember folks, there are no anti-gun people, there are only people who haven't had a good time shooting yet.
 
Don't give a rat's posterior.
I start yapping about guns and gun related minutia at the drop of a hat anyway. But, I don't live in a large liberal bastion of progressive policy either.
 
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