I shoot 6" older model GP100 with orifinal grips
7 1/2" Older Redhawk with Pachmayer grips
7 1/2" Freedom Arms .454 Casull
The GP100 is so versatile, and is the beginners choice when I'm teaching somebody to shoot (with light .38s) or I can shoot full power magnums which are not as loud, and do not recoil as much as .44 mag. Personally, I think its mild. It is a higher pitch sound. As a handloder, it is cheaper to shoot than .22 rimfire. I got it as a plinking toy, but its made its way back into the nightstand. I can rapid fire with mags and stay on target as well as my Smith 439 9mm.
The .44 kicks more, and makes more noise. I got it for deer hunting, and it works well. Even with full power magnums, I find it pleasant and fun to shoot.
The .454 is downright painful to shoot with full power stuff. I have to make a conscious effort to squeeze the trigger and not flinch. I can shoot 45LC in it, or .44 mag type loads. I got it for bear hunting, and use it mostly for deer hunting now. Factory grips were Pachmyers. It has a lot of muzzle flip. I think a lot of it has to do with the single action style frame and plowhandle grips. The Pachmyers to square it up some. I've never shot a Blackhawk in .44 to compare to the Redhawk but I suspect the single action style to have more barrel flip.
I think the big problem with .357s today is people trying to shoot them in very short barreled revolvers for personal defense. Its an excellent manstopper round, and was used by the border patrol for many years where a longer range weapon might com in handy, but they weren't using concealable snubbies. I hunt with the big dogs, but my GP100 gets shot more than anything. My wife loves it, and hates the 9mm.
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