I have a lot of contact with law enforcement. So, when i was looking for something small, reliable, and affordable I posed the same question to them. Of course taste and purpose vary. I too did not want a .380, it just doesn't pack enough punch. I will carry nothing smaller than a 9mm Luger. I was given one suggestion far more frequently than any other; the Kel-Tec pf-9. I purchased mine from a local officer, who had 2, for $225. It packs the punch of a 9mm, is very lightweight, and I don't get weepy eyed if it gets scratched. Mine has proven reliable and effective - I've even used it against a dog hell bent on eating my jugular. Loaded with Cor-Bon +p it will take down almost anything. Ive put more than 1000 round through mine (and like I say it was used) and have never had the first FTF or stovepipe. Sure the expensive pieces are nicer, but, this one is perfect for everyday carry.