WVsig,
May have sounded snarky, but I sure wasn't
wrong.
"Take a class" was the most helpful and best advice I could give the guy in this venue. No sense in adding to the confusion in-thread, with competing voices each telling him to do the exact opposite of something someone else just said.
By being short and clear, my excellent advice stood out from the rest of the crowd.
Why soften it by giving him less than the best I had to offer?
You're right about the resources and effort involved in finding a good class. But with 8 pistols purchased in just a few months, it's safe to assume our OP has the resources to invest in himself and his training.
Buying just
one less gun would have left him enough spare cash to pay for a 2-day class fee from some of the finest trainers in the country (Hayes, Ayoob, Givens, Farnam all fall well under the one-pistol price range), with enough money left over for ammo during class.
Buying two or three fewer pistols would have left him with enough money to pay hotel and travel costs assuming an overnight stay somewhere, still with enough money left over to buy more ammo to practice after class too.
That still leaves our guy with five or six pistols to play with, which may not be as fun as having eight pistols, but is sure a lot more fun than not knowing how to hit your target in the first place.
And it's also easier to research one trainer than it is to sort through conflicting and sometimes dangerous advice from random strangers on the internet -- people he hasn't seen shoot and doesn't know even by reputation.
That's a tough job for a new shooter.
I do regret the emotional impact of my first post, for what it's worth. Was trying to catch his attention in a playful way, and I can see it fell flat. It's just so very painful to watch someone go down an unfortunate road when he really doesn't have to.
So here's my best non-snarky advice for the OP:
Take. A. Good. Class. Get your diagnosis in person and then apply that diagnosis while you receive in-person feedback from someone who can see exactly what you're doing.
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