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A lot of questions becomes details after that. That said, there are some issues that need to be discussed ahead of time: kids, guns, moving-for-jobs, moving-for-family are some biggies.
I wasn't so much into guns when we got married, but when I got back to my midwest shootin' roots after a few years, she was ok with it. It helped that her dad had hunted birds a bit, but it definitely wasn't discussed before hand. She was happy enough that I was safety and kid-conscious.
A lot of questions becomes details after that. That said, there are some issues that need to be discussed ahead of time: kids, guns, moving-for-jobs, moving-for-family are some biggies.
I wasn't so much into guns when we got married, but when I got back to my midwest shootin' roots after a few years, she was ok with it. It helped that her dad had hunted birds a bit, but it definitely wasn't discussed before hand. She was happy enough that I was safety and kid-conscious.