Well, dont feel TOO bad. My dad is completely against CCW and thinks that those who do are "looking for trouble"
He keeps a handgun for home defense - loaded mag separate from the gun (condition 4) in the closet, safety on (its a DA/SA and the safety serves as a decocker) and a trigger lock. They have no kids in the house. The gun is a single stack .380 because he doesnt want to kill the person, just make them leave. He keeps it loaded with WWB FMJ ammo and maybe shoots it once a year. He will not keep another loaded mag with the gun (I've bought him 2 extras, various JHPs, and a holster that covers the trigger),has no idea how to clear a malfunction, and refuses to learn.
Needless to say, we have had some arguments.
Yikes.
I've met a couple of people like this. My advice in these situations is to either make the gun more accessible/useable or ditch the gun and go with a baseball bat or some other blunt object.
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but I load 5besides my smithy .38 is 80 yrs old
You, of course, can do as you please but your eighty year old Smith & Wesson revolver is just as safe loaded with six rounds as it is five. If you're keeping your revolver loaded for self-defense purposes, why would you needlessly give up 20% of its capacity.
A pre-war long action S&W does not have a positive hammer block system like most post war models do. Though the rebound slide does raise the hammer and firing pin out of the way, a strong enough blow to the hammer can result in an unintended discharge.
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If you want the nothing in the chamber feeling of safety, get revolver and carry 5.
It'll just be a "feeling" of course, because, as has already been pointed out, a modern da revolver or a sa revolver equipped with a transfer safety bar is just as safe loaded with six rounds as it is five.
This is correct, but for those that still aren't comfortable with a chambered round, even with such safety features in place, are probably best served with a double action revolver because all it takes is a pull of the trigger to rotate a round into place and fire it.