CZs could be a good choice, but with your stated preference of a safety but not "cocked and locked' without a grip safety, it may not be for you. That said, they are great guns. My CZ 75B has well over 10K rounds (I stopped counting about a decade ago at 10K, I'm quite sure I'm over 20K by now, and likely significantly over 20K) with such a small number of hiccups that they really aren't worthy of mention compared to the number of rounds (I don't remember the exact number, but there is no doubt they are in the single digits, and probably could be counted on one hand). It is about as accurate as my 1911 (which is to say, tied for my most accurate gun). I had a CZ 40B which was equally good, though not quite as accurate, that I never should have sold. A bit under a year ago I bought a CZ P01. Good gun, though I'm still adjusting to it (it has been reliable, it is accurate, though not as much as my full size CZ 75b or Commander sized 1911).
A CZ 75B and 75 Compact have a manual safety that can be carried "cocked and locked" without a grip safety. They are DA/SA pistols, though the safety only works in SA mode so for a DA first shot you need to manually decock the hammer. The 75D, PCR and P01 have a decocker only for a possibly safer (or at least a reassuring) way to decock and use the DA trigger as the safety (i.e. they work like a SIG). The P-07 has a safety or decocker that can work either way. With some simple adjustments you can have it work has a decocker only or as a CZ style safety, but it can't work as both at the same time.
That said, my S&W 1911SC (1st gen) and my S&W M&P40c are quickly becoming my favorite carry guns when out of state (this summer I've spent a lot of time in VA where I can carry).
The 1911SC was my carry gun years ago until I dropped guns with a safety and went DAO, DA/SA (decocker only) or striker fired, and it has long been one of my favorite range guns along with my CZ 75B (and my most accurate also along with the CZ 75B). Now that I've gone back to using guns with a safety, it is no surprise that is high on my list again, though it doesn't meet your criteria (15 rounds).
For me, the S&W M&P40c is a big surprise. It is a good gun at the range, and it is the perfect balance of size/concealment ease, flexibility, and capacity IMO. It completely disappears IWB or IWB/tucked, and is very comfortable to carry. I've even managed to carry it in my pocket one day in a DeSantis Nemesis, though it did print and took the entire pocket so if anyone looked down my pants just right they might see the butt of the gun just a few millimeters into my pocket. The standard capacity of the compact .40S&W with a flush mag is 10 rounds (it is 12 in 9mm). If you went full sized, the M&P 2.0 in .40 holds 15 (in 9mm it is 17), and is about the size of a 1911 Commander. One nice thing with the compact is the flexibility. I can use the flush 10 round mags (12 if I had bought the 9mm) for very easy concealment and even occasional pocket carry, or carry with the full size mag with a sleeve when I want more capacity and maximum concealment isn't a necessity (I love 15 rounds of .40S&W). Even when I choose to carry the flush mag, I can carry the full size mag as a reload. I knew that on paper it would be a good carry gun, and figured that it would get a lot of carry time when I wanted something smaller than my 1911SC (Commander size) but bigger than my SIG P290RS, but didn't think it would become such a favorite (especially this fast).
All of the M&P line are available with a safety if you wish.