A long time secret
I carry every time I leave the house. Work, shopping, visiting family & friends, even at Church. I don't ever want to be in a situation where somebody is shooting innocent people and I'm not able to help because my gun is home laying sideways somewhere.
I'm 50 and have carried since I ws 21. NOBODY has ever seen any gun that was being carried, nobody ever spotted it, nobody ever nudged me with an elbow and winked while pointing at any bulge....in fact I would say that only my immediate family even knows I have a gun on me. And that's because we've discussed what we prefer to carry, where and why, because they carry as well.
It's more than second nature, it's become an everyday part of my life.