You said that robbers rarely injure their victims and used that as your rationale for compliance.
Whoa. I do not suggest compliance. I suggest a full understanding of the facts and as much knowledge as possible to be used to decide what is the course of action that minimizes your loss of resources. Sometimes that might be compliance, sometimes that might be a full-scale attack, sometimes it might be a bit of deception and trickery, sometimes it might be something else.
I think that's ridiculous.
You may think it is ridiculous, but again, that doesn't change the facts.
But if/when the opportunity presents itself (you have the tactical advantage), I believe you should act rather than allow them to control the situation.
And I believe that choosing to act does not necessarily mean you are in control of the situation, nor does sitting back prepared to respond if needed mean they are in control
If a gunfight is going to break out, then I want to be the guy starting it.
And there is the key. If you do not start it, there probably won't be one at all.
Like I said, I want to be getting the FIRST and ONLY shots off.
I would want that too. However, I would suggest it is rather questionable to plan for a best case scenario given that rarely works out.
Compliance and being a willing victim is one side if the coin.
I'll disagree that compliance is the same as being a willing victim.
Taking the fight to the criminal is another.
And there is yet a third---watchful observance, prepared to act if necessary but not acting until it is necessary.
....and believe it or not, badguys freeze up too. That can be to your advantage.
And believe it or not, sometimes they don't freeze up. Frequently they have a lot more experience at this sort of thing than you do. That is to their advantage. Remember the basic rule--always assume your opponent is just as well-trained and motivated as you are.
Personally, I don't think my wife is going to feel any better know that when the criminal dumped me, it was just an exception to the rule.
And I don't think she will feel much better knowing that the criminal wouldn't have dumped you at all if you hadn't created a problem for him. And my wife would be downright unhappy if I got killed by a stray round from the gunfight you started that wasn't necessary. Getting into a gunfight should be a last resort, not a first choice.
I guess I could find more, but what would be the point?
There wouldn't be one, except that for every one of those where there was a murder there were about 400 where nobody was murdered.