First, I've not read this entire thread; nor am I going to.
2nd, I do not doubt the truthfullness of the data. If it's untrue, then shame on the person who made it up.
But...
What I see in looking over the data is simply proof that looking at data isn't a good way to choose a cartridge.
Why?
Go back and look at the data for the .22 rimfire. If we went only off of this data provided, I'd choose a pistol chambered in .22 LR as the best defensive handgun I can get, and that's simply not true.
I see no reason to collect data for this purpose. I don't collect data of this sort. I do, however, shoot a fair amount, and I've killed a fair number of animals with various cartridges. Enough so that I'm comfortable choosing what I believe will work best for me.
However, I also don't write books, and I don't make my living selling nonsense to the public.
When I chose my carry gun(s), I couldn't have cared less how the cartridge compared to the 9mm. I couldn't care less how it compared to a .357 Sig, or to any other cartridge. That is a non-issue to me.
Buy what works for you, and learn to shoot it well. What your buddies think of your choice, or how it compares to their choice is irrelevant.
Daryl