legalhack wrote:
we're talking about killing in self-defense. You need to read some Psychology to dispel the hand-wringing expectations of what Hollywood puts out as to how folks "should" feel after defending themselves.
I agree with the general sentiment. The military teaches people to kill and live with it, and for good reason. Another thing one can learn from countries with mandatory service is that
anyone can be taught to kill in self-defense. Thinking otherwise is a sort of self-doubt from social pressure; e.g. "I could never live with that, I'm civilized."
I have to disagree with legalhack's sentiment about thinking of those people as a social cancer or rabid dogs that need to put down. I would say, yes maybe someone who tried to mug you and died was just going through a bad time, maybe he was doing it to prove himself to a gang that would have otherwise beat him to death. Maybe he has a huge family that loves him.
That said, if someone puts you in a situation where you have to kill, I see it simply: The offender made a
very bad decision and
you are the consequence. The offender knew his actions carried the chance of death and he lost that die roll. To
not defend yourself would be an insult to the laws of the universe.
I'm not saying there won't be a long grieving process after an act of self-defense. There will likely be a natural grieving process, but if you let it finish its cycle, you will accept that you did the right thing.