Your posts have given me a lot to think about
One of the things that really stuck in my mind is JerryM's comment that "I value my friends more than my guns." Guess you could say this was a wake-up call of sorts for me.
A part of me still agrees with Pahoo, though---having lent out other stuff (not guns) I've been disappointed by the condition in which the loaners came back (if they came back at all). Makes me think that you should never loan out any thing you aren't willing to lose completely, if worse comes to worst(!)
I suppose that the biggest irony of it all is that the people we are most likely to lend our guns to, already have a lot of guns of their own, and are less than likely to borrow one of ours. In that case, I guess the criteria would be---would they lend me a gun if I needed one---right? If so, I guess I'd lend them one of mine, too.
Guess that the best thing to do would be to divide my collection into two parts---guns "for personal use only" and "loaners". I'm sure that, even subconsciously, each one of us has already drawn the line between which pieces we can "lend out" or "lose", and which ones are sacred ("for personal use only"). It's pretty clear that chadstrickland already has!
Just like many of us have already made a list of people in our heads, to whom we will (or won't) lend our guns, all legal issues aside.
Special mention goes to InigoMontoya and slickab, who have shared their weapons with those who probably needed them most. Sort of reinforced my faith in human nature, you two!
Yung.gunr and Nocturnus31, you guys crack me up! Remind me to call on you when I have "issues"!
Crankylove's point is well taken: "I spent a lot of time earning those firearms, and I don't lend them out to people that won't take care of them to the same level that I do, or that I wouldn't trust to shoot responsibly with them."
And I think that 104 has it down pat: "Trust is tough. I was always taught to return it in as good as shape as you got it or better! Some folks don't understand it. Spread the word!"
Thank you all very much for addressing a very ticklish subject! Now I know what to do...