Do NOT take your wife/gf shooting...

EdInk

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Hey guys,

I just wanted to pass along some advice to you.

Do NOT take your wife/gf shooting with you!

Two weeks ago, I took my wife shooting for the first time. She was a bit nervous and intimidated about it. I blame this on her being raised in California and by family (on both sides) that were/are "less than" pro-gun.

Moving on, we went to the range and I let her try several of my guns and a few others at the range. She mostly shot my 22/45 and did okay with it. She was also able to handle 9mm from some of the heavier guns but had a hard time holding anything with a double stack magazine. She really like my SA Mil Spec Stainless 1911. The recoil of .45acp is another story.

Anyway, a few days later we were sitting at the house and discussing her getting a gun of her own. She liked the 22/45 and will use it for practice and plinking BUT she wanted something in a "real caliber without to much recoil" and that was "her own gun." So we decided the 9mm round in a full size gun was perfect.

I had no problem with it and told her, okay. I let her handle all of my 9mm guns and compare them to a few others she tried at the range. While we were sitting in the living room and she was dry firing my different 9mm pistols, I took out my 1911 to clean. Then it happened..... My wife says, "Can I see that one?"

I double check the gun and make her do it too, even without the magazine. She then starts dry firing and everything.(You could tell she really liked the fit and trigger.) Then she hands it back and says... "I really like that one. It's thin and I can reach the trigger real well. Plus, it has that extra button safety on it and not just the switch kind." I respond, "Yeah, it's pretty nice. The military used it for over 70 years and blah, blah(1911 is great stuff), blah..." A few minutes later, while staring at the TV she says "I wish they made that one in 9mm." "They do," I said. Her eyes lit up and she uttered the words every married man knows too well... "I WANT one."

And now.... (marked guys already know the rest) less than two weeks later, my wife is the proud owner of a 9mm SA Loaded 1911 Stainless and the extra money I had put aside for my new Arsenal AK is all gone. Oh well, at least she has good taste in guns.

So, let this be a lesson. Do NOT take your wife/gf shooting with you.
 
I'm confused,,,

...and the extra money I had put aside for my new Arsenal AK is all gone.

Why did you have to spend the money you had put aside?,,,
Doesn't she have to put away money for her own stuff? ;)

But hey, If I had a wife,,,
I would probably do whatever it takes,,,
To get her involved into some kind of shooting sport.

Aarond
 
Would that we could ALL have that problem.

Oh, wait. I do! :D

Congrats to your wife. Have fun!

--Wag--
 
Kudos to you, sir

For getting the woman you love such a fine piece of machinery! It may take awhile, but you can save up again for your AK. Is your wife interested in carrying? Have her try a Glock 26, Ruger LC9,& a Kel-Tec P11, all those are great for concealed carry.
 
We discussed her getting a CCW permit and she decided to wait a little while. She wants to get more practice and better familar with guns before carrying one concealed. The plan is have her take some courses and what not at the range. (I am not a very patient teacher.)

However, one if my "friends" at the gun store pulled out a Springfield Armory EMP 9mm and said with a big grin "That's a great gun you're getting AND want something smaller to carry concealed, tell him to ge you one of these too."

"I hate you," was my joking response.

So, that'll probably be next year......
 
Trading hobbies

My wife and I are about even. She introduced me to keeping and breeding pythons as well as driving ponies, I introduced her to pistols and rifles.

I always tell dating kids to take the time to find out what your partners are interested in because you never know when you might find out how cool something you never would have thought of on your own can be.
 
Ed sharing different things, as is teaching your spouse to protect themselves is what a good relationship is all about. From your posting you are doing a great job of it. Now understand your purchase for your wife is not money out the door. It is really an investment in YOUR shooting and firearm buying future. If mama really gets into shooting she will understand the need to add new firearms to your collection.
 
You're lucky. I married the spawn of Satan and her only hobby was other men. I'd like to meet someone interested in shooting. I would probably shoot more, that's for sure.
 
I understand completely.
My wife started with a single six. All was well and good.
Then she wanted a revolver with a bit more oomph in her size. SP101 3" barrel.
Then she wanted a semi for a defensive pistol class. M&P 9
Then she wanted something a bit smaller for her purse. Firestorm 380
Now she's asking me to take her to shoot rifles.

The amusing thing is when she says she never spends any of her money on herself. Correct in that we spent our money on these. There are no other categories, just hers and ours. :rolleyes:
 
My wife was an anti, once she started shooting i had to sneak off to the range because she shoots out all my ammo.

Thank goodness we had a baby last year so since then, all the ammo is mine, mine, mine.

Seriously though, i love the fact that she enjoys shooting.
 
WIVES & GUNS

TRUE STORY:

WHEN MY WIFE & I MARRIED 31 YEARS AGO, I GAVE HER A 1974 PRODUCTION, 4" BARREL, MAG-NA-PORTED BLUE STEEL COLT PYTHON. STARTED HER OFF SHOOTING LIGHT HAND LOADS (she loaded them herself) & OVER THE NEXT 12 MONTHS, GRADUALLY WORKED UP THE POWER LEVEL, UNTIL THE POINT SHE IS SHOOTING HER HAND-LOADED 125 JHP @ 1350 FPS WITH NO PROBLEMS.

3 YEARS LATER, I GAVE HER A 1976 PRODUCTION REM MODEL 700 BDL IN .243 WINCHESTER, THAT I PERSONALLY HAD "HOT-RODDED" FOR HER. SHE CAN EASILY BLOW PLASTIC POP BOTTLES FILLED WITH COLORED WATER @ 400 YARDS WITH NO PROBLEMS.

WE STILL HAVE EACH OTHER & ALL THE GUNS !!!!

GURU1911
 
Do NOT take your wife/GF shooting...

...especially at the same time.:eek::D.

Seriously,

Kudo's to you for getting her involved. IMO, Quality time spent together is the best marriage counseling you can get.

My wife didn't come from a shooting/hunting family. She now loves to shoot and is quite a good shot but the cleaning is always left up to me:rolleyes:.

Still can't get her to go hunting with me but she's learned to fix most wild game that will make your 'gums beat your brains out'.
 
Don't cry too much, at least you still have all of yours and only added to the number in the house. My wife decided she liked the 2 1/2" S&W model 66 I carried as a Private Investigator and a Security Supervisor when in the office. While it is still in the house it has become her gun. I'm glad she chose a good fighting gun that I have faith in for her gun.
 
I disagree, you should take your wife shooting for a slightly different reason.
I took mine shooting for the first time 10 years ago. Again she wanted one for her own to carry. Knowing better than to pick one out I took her to a gun shop and let her pick one out.
Gave her a few hints but let her choose.
1.Glock 26. Good choice until I had her try to rack the slide and clear a failure. OK I know that Glocks have never failed but you should practice. She didn’t have the hand strength. The Glock is now my carry gun.
2.Kimber Royal carry. Too much recoil, it’s now in my safe.
3.S&W 60, she carries that for now but complains about the weight.
4.Trying to talk her into a Ruger LCR so the 60 can end up in my safe.
5.After that I will try to talk her into a Kimber Solo.
She did say to me once “Can't you trade them in.” “Yes” says I “but you lose so much money on them we should just hold on to them.
And yes I am evil.;)
P.S. she never did stop carring the 60.
 
My wife did basically the same thing........18 years ago, been great ever since except she keeps trying to stake claim to my firearms so I have to buy another one for her.:)
 
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