No one has to know you are carrying. Given the way the world is today I think it a prudent thing to do.
FWIW, considering I'm new here, I absolutely agree.
Serious question: would you carry in a Quaker Meetinghouse or JW Kingdom Hall (keeping in mind these are religious pacifist groups)?
Well, if it's on the order of a J-frame a pocket holster would do nicely...How can I avoid them hitting and noticing that lump on my waist?
Been there, done that, Brother! May I suggest something on the order of a Lou Alessi pocket pocket (like the one my Kel Tec sits in). This will work nicely for those moments when a 1911 may dent the forehead of a little one (yours or someone else's) trying to give you a hug.I also teach childrens church, and the kids often hug me. How can I avoid them hitting and noticing that lump on my waist? I don't know that I'd be comfortable with an ankle holster, but I may have to give it a try.