If u were going to be stuck with only one hand gun for everything from self defense in the city to alaska bear defense what would it be and why?
Maybe I did overstate things a bit, but did I really? The OP question is really wide open. And there is no "right" answer, everyone has their own opinion, and can argue how gun #1 does A well enough and B really well, and the next guy says gun #2 Does A reaaly well, and B well enough, and even does a passable job with C.....
You are entirely right that there are lots of guns that will do almost all of it well enough but when you ask a wide open question, you should expect a wide open answer. I suppose I should have said "There isn't one best for everything. Pick what you feel is best for the most liklely things you are going to do, if you have to limit yourself to only one."
This feeling that we need to have a different gun for every need gets carried away.
Sure, you can get carried away in anything, but one man's carried away is another's barely adequate. People seem to think they need a whole bag full of clubs to play golf, and golf has a LOT fewer variables than handgun use. Nobody ever seems to say you only need one golf club.
I like handguns, own a few, and several of them overlap in utility. Others are much more specialized. I'm not limited by any law to only one handgun, and since I'm able to, I celebrate the diversity of choices available.
You will see a lot of folks saying that in these "only one" gun questions they will choose a medium size .357 as the most versatile, if they like revolvers at all. Or they will choose something else, their personal favorite, usually.
There is no one gun that does everything equally well. If there was, we'd probably have a lot fewer choices on the market.
And that set of Craftsman tools used by mere mortals has a lot of different wrenches and sockets in it!