All of the skills are valuable.
Absolutely,pounding things down fast up close is a very real skill to have with a handgun. I do practice that some.
A whole lot of folks think the only use for a handgun is whacking people up close,and I take pleasure in showing some of them different.
It is not that I think I have exceptional skills,I don't.I understand sight alignment and trigger control.and I keep my eyes open long enough to call my shot most of the time.Past that,I'm quite ordinary.
I do not ordinarily shoot at a range.I go to wide open ranch land.You can be skepical if you like,but with a little practice,it is fun to pick a rock or a bush way out there on the side of a mountain,and ask someone to spot,and they look at you funny,and say "no way!"
You never make the shot if you don't take the shot!
I don't care if it is my Taurus .44 snubby,a PA-63 ,my Superblackhawk,or a .45 1911.
At 2,3,4,even 5 hundred yards,one can hold all of the blade,ramp and part of the barrel or slide above the rear sight,and almost shoot indirect fire like an old M-79,and surprisingly often,make a dust puff within a few feet of the target.It is nothing but fun. A sneaky trick is to discover a reference aiming point on up the moutain a ways to hold a precise sight picture on.
I also think about anyone with decent bullseye skills and maybe 50 rds of long range practice could fairly often get one or 2 hits on a man size target at 200 yds with a .45 1911.
Not to take anything away from the serious business of SD skills,there is not a thing in the world wrong with getting the same satisfaction from shooting as someone gets when they make a perfect drive with a golf club.
I think it is important to have the skills to be dangerous,but if that is always the image we portray,a lot of general public will be afraid,and will not want you to have a gun.
I think it is important to share with new shooters and the public that shooting can be about skill and fun,also.Like golf.Let them try,and just have fun,without thinking about killing people.
As far as using a gun to protect myself or my loved ones,well.I know what it is to have a scary foe dead at my feet.He had torn a hole in my wife and I bashed him in the face before I killed him.Nose to tail he was 6 foot 6.
It was a bear instead of a human,which is OK with me.Just because I shoot for fun,does not mean I can't take care of myself.