Hatred is akin, I think, to pregnancy. You are either pregnant or you're not...you either hate someone or something or you don't. Its not a state of mind or being given to half measures or ambivalent attitudes. It is the stuff of raw emotions.
That being said, our enemies in the world of Islamofascism hate us, period. They hate us for innumerable, insoluable reasons...our multi-cultural, ethnic and religious system, our insistence on equalty for women, our permissive, degenerate society, MTV, viagra, fast food etc...yada, yada, yada.
There is probably a specific target of hatred associated with us for each calander day of their year. If you accept that hatred is a constant then you must accept that they can hate us no more nor no less, regardless of what we do or do not do, say or do not say; only continue to hate us until we are dead, no more.
Refraining from speaking the truth in the plainest form possible will not cause them to suddenly stop hating us.
In fact, refraining from speaking the truth is a form of appeasement and weakness. It is a crutch that some folks lean on that supports them in the idea that 'if we just change our behavior' all this will pass. "if we show them how nice and understanding we are, they'll leave us alone'.
Folks,its a pipe dream. Our enemies would gladly kill each of us in our beds. There is NO appeasing them. Appeasing the Germans in the '30's didn't keep Hitler from murderng one less Jew. Negotiating with the Japanese in the '30's didn't stop the Rape of Nanking, nor Pearl Harbor, nor the Bataan Death March.
We are facing fascism here, cloaked in the garb of religion. It is a war to the death. The only way to deal with it is to give it swift, repeated and unapologetic kicks in the teeth.