well here's my story.
I started out thinking about CCW and went to get a semi. I ended up w/ a S&W CS45 Chief's Special .45acp. Not knowing any better, I was pretty fond of this "new" gun. After a few trips to the range, I had a chance to shoot a SIG 1911 .45acp. Right at that moment I realized the CS45 was NOT what I wanted. I searched and ended up w/ a Dan Wesson PMA-S 1911 5". I currently shoot this gun most accurately. I then got a KIMBER Ultra CDP for my carry. It has been the best decision. The flatness of the 1911 style as well as the ease of shooting and comfortable consistent grip of the 1911 style was the driving force.
On the other hand my wife being more of a newbie at this whole CCW thing has been struggling w/ a Walther PPKS InterArms model .380acp. It is a great shooting gun although you have to watch the hammer bite, but my wife has trouble w/ operating the small slide as well as her head wasn't right about carrying w/ a round in the chamber. So I suggested a revolver (although at this time, I was still anti-revolver). She was hesitant for months and just went about carrying the PPKS unchambered......
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A few months ago, we were at a hunting store up north of us in Willow Grove, PA, and I noticed 2 .357mags. A S&W M66 4" and a S&W M686 7shot 6". I talked to my wife about getting one of these (leaning towards the 686). She thought the 686 was too heavy but liked the 66. So we got both and proceeded directly to the range to try them out. Well we were 2 happy campers. The 686 was beyond my expectations for a revolver. I was hooked. I got the revo bug. My wife also loved her M66. She felt like she hit a milestone going from a .380 to shooting .38sp/+p (she tried the .357mag rounds and felt that it was too much but really likes how a .357 frame shoots .38sp and .38sp +Ps. Over a period of time, we went revolver shopping and I now have:
S&W 686-4 7shot 6" Stainless .357mag
S&W M19-3 Nickel 6" .357mag
Ruger GP100 6" Stainless .357mag
Ruger GP100 3" Blue fixed sight .357mag
Colt Python Blue 6" .357mag
Colt Python 4" Refinished HardChromed .357mag
My wife has:
S&W M66 4" Stainless .357mag
Dan Wesson 715 Stainless 4" .357mag
Colt Python Nickel 8" .357mag
Colt Anaconda .45LC/.454Casull
I have shot .44 mag and really didn't like the recoil and I don't feel that I can shoot a .44 on a regular basis. That may be in the future though as a curiosity. Right now both my wife and I enjoy the .38sp/.357 versatility and I get my .45acp practice in on my DW and Kimber Ultra.
For a person that believed revo's were ancient news, I have come around to really enjoying the revolver. I enjoy the challenge of placing a shot w/ w revolver. I enjoy the "real gun" feeling of a revolver. It reminds me of my childhood when I was playing w/ cap guns. I enjoy the challenge of shooting DA whereas my 1911 is pretty much monotonously accurate and predictable. Last of all, I really enjoy the simplicity of the revolver.
My wife carries a Ruger GP100 3" now also. She feel a lot more comfortable now carrying and after carrying a revo, she no longer is afraid of carrying one in the chamber in the PPKS.
So I no longer shun the revolver like I used to. IMO, revolvers should be the first kind of gun to own for a newbie (of course you won't convince a newbie of that very easily). Revolvers are great for people who have a hard time racking a slide. I didn't realize it until I got into shooting, but a lot of women have a hard time racking slides on a semi (no offense to any women here), but I see this issue a lot. I also feel more comfortable that my wife is comfortable carrying a revolver. I know it will go BANG when she needs it, and less likely to cause a malfunction at a crucial moment and she won't ever have to worry about racking a slide or clearing a stovepipe, or even better, in the heat of a panic reaction, forget to flick the safety off.