45 ACP 230 gr HST in semi-autos
45 ACP revolvers 230 gr HST +p mainly due to having a bunch of it and not planning on beating my autos up with it, though clearly any N frame can handle that and more.
380 has federal hydrashocks as they work in Seecamps and come in 50 round boxes of which I have 6
357 J / K frame 147 gr silver tips
357 ruger / L frame 125 gr gold dots
45 colt, rarely used as a primary self defense arm, either the Silver tip load or whatever woods load I am carrying.
When it comes to the 357's I have I have been working back to having the above loads that I prefer, with the ammo drought I got fairly far away at times due to what was around. That is the nice thing about wheel guns, one need not test fire for feeding reliability.
In general If I have a 125-150 gr projectile at reasonable velocity I am happy. I have a bunch of 38 +p remmingtion SJHP that was 19.50 for 50 so at this point it is cheaper than most 38 ball ammo on the rack by 2 bucks so it will be practice ammo or if I had to I would feel out of place carrying that though it is not my first choice.