It's not that the 6.5 is magical, it's that the weight class of bullets with high BC are light enough to be run through a short action with good speeds.
There you go. That's the best statement I have seen for the 6.5mm bore size, in a very long time.
That's what I was trying to bring out in this thread.
Frankenmauser, you are right in that equal BC would make all those calibers pretty equal - if you could find them: The 6.5 hits just the sweet spot between bullet length and BC. Typical 140 gr 6.5 bullets have BC around .6, try to find that BC in a 30 cal. You're looking at 200+gr VLD bullets that won't give you an acceptable OAL in most loadings. In the smaller calibers I haven't found a bullet with a BC over .55.
The .30 caliber, 180 grain Swift Scirocco II has a BC of .520. That BC is about average for 140 grain 6.5mm bullets, as well (particularly for hunting bullets). Everyone likes to swear by the 0.6 BC "magic number", but many of the 140 gr BCs fall closer to 0.5.
You didn't say which cartridge you're referring to, so I'm going to use the magical and over-hyped .260 Rem, and the magical and over-hyped .30-06.
For a direct comparison, the Hornady 6.5mm 140 gr SST works well. They're both tipped hunting bullets of similar design, and both have the same BC of 0.520. Neither bullet is designed to be jammed into the lands, and both are intended to work in box magazines.
Published max velocities for the Scirocco II are 2,700 fps, on average.
Published max velocities for the SST are 2,700 fps, on average.
The only difference between the two loads, from equal weight rifles, will be recoil energy. Sticking the Scirocco II in .308 Winchester (for short action comparison), will provide a max velocity of about 2,650 fps. That 50 fps loss is negligible for hunters.
...And the Scirocco II is known for its controlled expansion, and deep penetration in all calibers and weights.
If you want to compare competition bullets, it does get a little more tricky. For example:
Hornady's 6.5mm 140 gr A-Max has a BC of 0.585. However, they don't offer a comparable .30 caliber bullet, until you hit 208 grains. But that .30 cal 208 gr A-Max eclipses the 6.5's with a BC of 0.648.
It's the difficulty in keeping comparisons equal, that keeps everyone divided.
Since the 6.5's "superiority" in competition has been hashed out many times, I'll let that aspect go.
As hunting cartridges, they're just over-hyped.
I freely admit there will be a difference in recoil energy, when compared to larger bore sizes. How much of that will be noticeable, though, is up to the individual shooter.
If you want a short action, AND like to shoot very heavy-for-caliber bullets, the short 6.5s are the thing for you. If neither of those concepts really matters to you, then the short 6.5s are no better than a .243 Win. I can shoot heavy-for-caliber bullets in nearly any cartridges, and get the same or very similar results.
*OAL limitations do come into play with certain cartridge / firearm combinations - but not all.