she doesn't want them to work.
Tragic, but true, all too often.
There's an old joke "how many psychiatrists does it take to change a lightbulb?"
"only one, but the lightbulb has to
want to change..."
My own personal experience with "professional" therapy might have soured me a bit on the whole idea, and I do try to overlook it in principle, but don't always succeed.
Without going into the details, the advice I got was just simply wrong. Since then I do sometimes wonder how many other people get
treatment but don't actually get any
help.
And, literally, people who don't want help, don't get any, no matter how much effort is put into treatment.
Every case is different, because everyone is different. My concern (and I know I'm beating this horse pretty hard) is them wanting to fix what I don't think is broken, using a process that doesn't take ME into account other than as plot points on a graph based on my response to loaded questions.
Anyone else see the possibility of a slippery slope here? Any bets on how long it is until a "perfect" score will also be a sign of a problem?? After all, denial is part of the problem, right????
When the money is there, people without problems will be diagnosed as needing treatment, too. after all, the doctors know what they're doing.....
Sorry for the rant, but I don't see this as the camel's nose poking into the tent, more like the Kraaken's tentacle wrapping about your ankle...