While I'm a big fan of .357, I have to wonder where the huge difference is between these two loads:The only 35 worth it's salt on people is a 357mag with 125s.
125gr .357 bullet at 1310 ft/s
124gr .355 bullet at 1260 ft/s
One is apparently the "lightning bolt" that routinely stops bad guys in their tracks, while the other is only marginally more damaging than stepping in a nest of fire ants.
There isn't much difference in the performance of the two cartridges, so the only possible difference I could see would be in the hands of the person using them.
As far as the Miami shootout, there were many failures of strategy and training involved. Blaming the whole mess (as many still do) on the performance of one bullet doesn't doom the whole cartridge to a life of mediocrity.