Pond James Pond
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When it (and a whole lot of other self-destructive behaviors) was socially unacceptable, there was a whiole lot less of it.
The way we run welfare in this country, it PAYS to engage in behaviors that are self destructive.
There may have been less of it, but that doesn't explain what being born out of wedlock has to do with school shootings... Nor is a child out of wedlock a self-destructive act. A child out of an unhealthy relationship is self destructive, but I've seen plenty of unhealthy marriages in my time, so the wedlock aspect is not pertinent to the issue, IMO.
Frankly, social stigmas are one of the very reasons that people feel they are failures or feel the pressure of peer expectations and then go off the rails....
Adding irrelevant pressures to the mix don't help...