?, just my opinion, not condoning any course of action. Get outta there RFN. When he's at work or gone for a while, pack up only what is absolutely necessary for you and kid(s) and get someplace he won't find you. A relative, another female friend, or if none available, I'm sure a local church would be happy to either accomodate you, or point you in the direction of the best place to go. Marriage may be sacred, but I'm of the opinion that life itself holds a higher value. Once you're out for a while, then if you still desire, look into the responsibility that owning a gun entails. Especially with a small child. If you make the choice to purchase a gun, get some kind of training on both the use of the gun, and the current laws regarding the lawful use of it. Just my opinion.