Thank you all for your input. Interestingly, at this point, 18 votes out of 39 are for "love the one you're with."
Mrs. McGee has fired an XD in 9mm (fullsize, if I remember correctly), as well as the G19. Hates 'em both. No, the G19 is not Mrs. McGee's carry gun. It never has been, and I've never even wanted to choose her concealed carry pistol for her. That said, now that I know that she loathes shooting it, that aspect of it can simply be removed from the table. (Also, my wife does enjoy target shooting, so having guns that she enjoys shooting increases the chances that she'll go to the range with me.)
Don P said:
Eeegattts, if I had to put that much thought into buying a hand gun I might consider giving up shooting. . . . .
If you think I'm bad about handguns, you should see me try to buy a car.
Do I overthink it? By most folks' standards, yeah, but not by mine. I thoroughly detest Buyer's Remorse.
Joe_Pike said:
I don't believe that's possible. If he had the G23 he could get a 9mm and .357 SIG barrel, though.
Trading a G19 for a G23 and getting a conversion barrel would be an option, but (believe it or not), I was trying not to open up too many options on myself. A G23 would fit all of my holsters, already, though, and I suppose I could keep some of the mags which I bought for my G19 for 9mm in a G23, right?
TunnelRat said:
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Spats McGee said:
Have any of you carried both a G19 and an XDm in the 3.8”? (Not necessarily at the same time, mind you.) How do they compare? How difficult is the extra 5 oz to lug around all day?
Yes, I have. The weight isn't dramatic with a quality holster. Honestly the slightly smaller grip (I'm a bit narrow from front to back) was more of a help to me and it offset the weight. My issues with the XDm Compact stem from a pistol that to me feels unbalanced in the hand. Many people find polymer pistols unbalanced. I can honestly say the XDm Compact is one of the few polymer pistols that felt that way to me. The hunky slide of the XDm with the small grip was definitely noticeable. Now I still shot the pistol very well (better than a Glock) so it's sort of a moot point, just an observation.
Thanks, TR. That's very helpful. Interestingly, when I first got my Glock, I had virtually zero experience with polymer pistols, and it felt unbalanced to me. To my hand, it felt like a self-correcting problem once I put in a loaded mag, though.
Uncle Malice said:
Spats,
I've had the XDM in 9mm and 45 in both compact and full size. I found the recoil pulse on the XDM 45 compact to be less than pleasant.
If I may, then, I'll ask a follow-up question. Have you fired an XDs? How does the recoil compare? I actually found the XDs to be fairly soft-shooting (for such an itty-bitty gun in .45). I do not know if any of our local ranges have any of the models under consideration for rent, but if I decide to make the leap, I'll definitely be renting before buying if I can.
Uncle Malice said:
The XDM 9 compact is definitely a pretty nice gun. It definitely needs a better trigger in my opinion. So add another $140 to the top of your cost.
Good to know, though I don't have any problems with the Glock trigger.
Uncle Malice said:
I still have the XDM 9 fullsize and while I like it, the trigger is meh... even with the Springer Precision kit installed. I'm pretty much only keeping it as a point of reference. I've owned it a few times and sold... then forget why I sold.
If you're up for any other suggestions, I would push you to the M&P 9 with Apex DCAEK & AEK polymer trigger. You'll be all set with that for about the same price as the XDM out the door - before any trigger upgrades.
Also good to know. The M&P series was on my list when I first started this adventure in to polymer pistols. I'm really, really trying not to add too many more possibilities to The List, because of the aforementioned overthinking, but maybe I do need to go back and handle one of those . . . . . . . just once . . . just to be sure.
jmr40 said:
My advice:
The triggers/ergonomics are just different enough that I'd suggest staying with one brand. Pick one, and buy multiple guns of the same brand and you will be much happier going from one to the other.
I sort of think of the Glocks as a shooting system rather than individual guns. I have G-17, 19, 26. I keep the mag made for the gun in it when carrying, but only use G-17 mags as spares. I also have G20 and G21. The grips are a little bigger, but cheap practice with one of the 9mm's is with the same trigger and feel.
That matches my theory. One thought that I was toying with was to (somehow scrounge enough money to) buy an XDm in 9 for practice and an XDm in .45 for carry. Unfortunately, I haven't really liked any of the .45 Glocks that I've held, except for the G21 . . . As much as I like the thought of having 13 rounds of .45 on hand, that's a big mamu gun to conceal.
Venom1956 said:
Why not just keep the g19 get the xd9 and if the xd is davoeible when u compared head to head. Then dump the g19 and then u can use that to get a xd45 later?
While I'm not sure what "davoeible" means, I'm guessing you mean "get the XD9 and see if it's better than the G19, and if it is, dump the G19 and get the XD45?"