For first gun - .357 Mag revolver. You can shoot the softer .38 Special loads in it to get used to it. It's obvious how it works, it has a fairly hefty trigger pull so there's little surprise that it would go bang if you pull the trigger, and just about everyone can figure out how to unload it. Simpler is less mistake-prone.
There's even a (debatable) slightly positive perception of using a revolver to defend yourself rather than a semi-auto. (The press seems to think "semi-auto" is a perjorative term and if only all semi-autos disappeared the world would be safe once again.)
2nd gun should be a .22 pistol. Put a few thousand rounds thru it to become proficient and learn the fundamentals of marksmanship.
THEN you can start looking at other guns from a position of some experience.
The revolver is to handguns as Cheerios is to food. Everyone should start there! While you may forget about them for awhile you never really outgrow them.
There's even a (debatable) slightly positive perception of using a revolver to defend yourself rather than a semi-auto. (The press seems to think "semi-auto" is a perjorative term and if only all semi-autos disappeared the world would be safe once again.)
2nd gun should be a .22 pistol. Put a few thousand rounds thru it to become proficient and learn the fundamentals of marksmanship.
THEN you can start looking at other guns from a position of some experience.
The revolver is to handguns as Cheerios is to food. Everyone should start there! While you may forget about them for awhile you never really outgrow them.