To me, it depends on the gun almost completely. While I do enjoy feeling like I'm firing something powerful, I don't like struggling to maintain control.
* Shooting 125-grain .357s in my GP-100 and SP-101 was fun, but not so much fun that I ever reloaded for the caliber. I reloaded thousands of .38s.
* Shooting just about anything in my J-frames was not fun, standard .38s included. +P was just about out of the question.
When I want recoil, and at times I do, I'll shoot slugs out of my 20" Remington 870. That's fun.
* Shooting 125-grain .357s in my GP-100 and SP-101 was fun, but not so much fun that I ever reloaded for the caliber. I reloaded thousands of .38s.
* Shooting just about anything in my J-frames was not fun, standard .38s included. +P was just about out of the question.
When I want recoil, and at times I do, I'll shoot slugs out of my 20" Remington 870. That's fun.