One thing I keep in mind: as problematic as they may seem abstractly, the chances of any potential lethal encounter are very slim to begin with , and I believe, out of those, when a CCW pulls their gun the BG flees 80% of the time. That leaves a very, very, very slim chance you will both have to shoot AND make a mistake. On top of that, I think most SD shootings, when they do happen, are "clean", there are not mistakes, (although I don't have stats for that).
In other words, this will likely always stay an abstract problem. To balance the small potential negative that it won't, is the much greater chance you will have more ease of mind when around dangerous environments, and if something does happen you will likely escape, either because the instigator fled, or is shot - and shot justifiably. On that basis, I chose to carry, in the specific circumstances when I am increased danger: for me, that is on foot, alone, at night.
And the rest: I tell myself: "Act in any encounter exactly the same as you would have before you had a CCW, unless it is overwhemingly clear you are going to be killed/seriously injured NOW. Then, save your life with what's available". (And I go to the range a lot.). What else can you do in life? Ultimately, you take your chances with anything you choose, driving, running (heart-attack), swimming, flying in an airplane.... If the reward outweighs the risk, take your shots and hope for the best from the fates.
If you try ccw, and it's a source of continual fear over what could happen, then fine, it's not for you. For me, I feel easier than I used to, so it works. Keep it simple./QUOTE]
I think that we all need to take a sec and read the post from GVF again and again. I carry because I want to carry. I carry, not intending on having to save my life of that of one of my family, but hopefully I have the training to handle such a situation. But, I also hope that even while not armed I have the training to save my life even if it is simply by outrunning the BG. I dont have the stats but I am betting that during the lifetime of a CCW they will never have to use their gun to fight for their life or the life of someone they are trying to protect. I love to read these postings and see the number of people giving advice on how to handle themselves in a life and death situation. I would bet that very few of these individuals actually have the "first" hand experience (I dont either). Most police officers dont even have this type of experience and they are being paid to put themselves in bad situation after bad situation. All we are doing is picking up the kids and getting some KFC. I know that some of these posters do have first hand knowledge and they should be respected for trying to help us better understand what we might face.
All I am trying to say is if when you pull your gun and the BG runs away (armed or not) then job well done. He more than likely will not be running to the police to tell them you have a gun and you were a bad boy and pulled it out even though he did not threaten to kill you. On the off chance that when the gun is pulled and he walks over and sticks his finger in the barrel, you dont have time to think about what kind of man you are, you should already know that while the gun is in the sock.