I say the sample "deadbeat dad" should be allowed his 2nd Amendment rights....one has nothing to do with the other. On the other matters opined on..there are different circumstances, not all the same. If the woman has done wrong, initiates divorce, gains custody of kids, "turns" them against you, does not provide a healthy home environment, instill in them values and morals (or lack of) that you dont condone...I really think you should be able to walk away...she, does, afterall, hold all the cards, from deciding to have the kids initially, to keeping the kids after the divorce, from what I've seen. I know it can go both ways..but I don't see where all should suffer from some. Could be simliar to garnish,charge, or otherwise seek recompense from all illegal aliens for their childrens education, healthcare, and border security that they were able to defeat (actually, they just walk around them, or better yet, actually get a "permit" to do so)..I'd like to see them pay that debt back.