I almost missed this, sorry.
If the muzzle blast is a problem then they should really find something with less of it. I do agree that what most call recoil is simply the blast at face level. The worst thing anyone can do is to take someone they really want to introduce to shooting, hand them any loud gun but especially any "magnum" and let them shoot it to show them how tough they are. Alot of times it will be a husband taking his wife for her first experience, handing her a .357 or .44 mag, no hearing protection and then they wonder why the wife doesn't like shooting. I've heard of and seen this way too many times.Most recoil qua recoil is not physically painful for most people. Muzzle blast and flash do tend to be perceived as pain by new shooters, and it's entirely possible for people to separate out those components. The process happens more slowly and with more effort than most of us believe.
I broke my right hand years ago. It will start to bother me after enough full house .44 mag loads. I'm glad I reload so I can still shoot some wussy loads in it most of the time. I do enjoy full power loads and usually wait until I am about done for the day and if my hand is willing I'll rip those off then and suffer the consequences later.Is a .44 magnum physically painful to me? No, but 50 rounds of full house .44 magnum on a bad arthritis day can leave souvenir aches and wreak havoc with my accuracy.