Just got chased by a random car...

Nothing wrong with a quick, unoffensive toot of the horn to wake someone up.
Standing at a light or stop sign, holding up traffic, is downright rude.
If they get riled at it, it's not your fault.
They're probably the kind of person who bullies everyone.
No telling when or where a guy like that will appear in one's life.
Be prepared to deal with them, when ever.
You did just fine, all's well than ends well.
 
The one thing I regret not doing, which I might do in the future, is file a police report.
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If you regret not doing it, go do it now. It's not as if you have to go the moment the event ends or you've lost your chance.
 
Right after any encounter, it's wise to let the cops know you are the victim, and not the perpetrator.
Just to prevent the other guy from doing the same.

On the other hand, letting the cops know you were involved in an altercation might not be the wisest thing, either.
Especially if the other guy was enough of a threat to prevent him from wanting anything to do with calling the cops, either.
Sometimes, it's a tough call.
Sleeping Dogs, you know.
 
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Find it kind of surprising really. If I'm day dreaming and don't notice the light chance ans somebody honks I don't get angry I just feel embarrassed for holding them up. If it's at a red light right turn or the light just turned I get a little annoyed but not enough to chase someone. That is idiotic
 
In any event, someone sounding the horn is not an excuse to give chase or get out of your car with the intent to assault the other driver.
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Sure, if the guy is rational at the moment. But if he isn't rational then honking your horn at him only serves to tick him off enough to chase you all across town and try to beat your ass or worse.
 
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Good judgement

A quick toot at a distracted driver is not a misuse of the horn, and, although every story has two sides, from the account given, the OP did everything right.

+1 to filing a report with police, and a dashcam seems like technology whose time has come...

The situation could easily have escalated into a use of force, but to his credit, the OP was able to de-escalate the situation. In spite of the posturing and bravado on internet forums, talk is cheap: Much cheaper than the inevitable civil suit...!
 
R1145 said:
A quick toot at a distracted driver is not a misuse of the horn, and, although every story has two sides, from the account given, the OP did everything right.
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I agree. I've spent many years commuting in major cities. And for five of those years driving was part of my job. When the person in front of you is distracted and doesn't notice the light has turned green, it's completely OK to give a short, quick "toot" to tell them to go; I've done it literally hundreds of times.

Heck, in some places (Like DC) many people do office work at stoplights and rely on the people behind them to tell them when the light is green. I've never, ever had anyone get mad at me when I tooted the horn. The key is to give a short, quick, quiet honk; that's not rude at all. However, laying on the horn in a long blast is something different altogether.
 
I suppose honking the horn is the automotive equivalent of yelling at someone.
Maybe in the future they won't come as standard equipment. Seems as though I remember a horn being on the required equipment list in some locals.
I wonder whatever for, if not sounding off at dumb-nesses.
 
The HP F210 dash cam goes into the cigarette lighter but Best Buy Geek Squad can hard wire it in for you. Its automatic and has a motion sensor.

A dashcam can either help you or incriminate you. So you have to be at your best when running one and make sure your actions demonstrate good judgement. I would have gotten the plate and a picture of the driver had I been running one.
 
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Find it kind of surprising really. If I'm day dreaming and don't notice the light chance ans somebody honks I don't get angry I just feel embarrassed for holding them up.
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Ah -yea!
I guess rational responses just can't be assumed these days.
Course I had two road rage incidents living in South Florida 20 years ago.
 
Back in the early 80's before cell phones became popular I was driving my dad's 79 Cadillac Seville one evening with my best friend. We were heading to a movie and were driving behind a car which had no tail lights on. It was a summer evening and we had the windows down.
The car stops at a light and we pull up next to the car. There were 2 guys in the car. I say "excuse me. I'm just letting you know your tail lights" at that point the guy flipped out threatening to kill us.
As he starts getting out of his car I hit the gas, he gets back in his car and the chase is on.

It went on for what felt like 30 minutes and we ended up 15 miles from where we were headed by the time we lost them but at least we were alive.

This happened over 30 years ago and my buddy and I can still recall exactly what the guy looked like.
The problem is you don't know what kind of crazy you will run into.
 
I just feel embarrassed for holding them up.
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Exactly.

Rightly call someone on something they have done wrong and they feel dumb and embarrassed. Often the only way people (namely guys) can deal with that is aggression.

People are so worried about how they might be perceived, by a total stranger they will never see again no less, that they'd rather start an altercation than just accept and pull away from the stop line.

Male pride doesn't really seem all that useful in the grand scheme of things.

In the heavily sanitized words of Marcellus Wallace to Butch,
"The night of the fight, you may feel a slight sting. That's pride having its wicked way with you. Just you forget about pride. Pride only hurts, it never helps."
 
I agree not to be antagonistic, but come on, if the light turns green and the person in front of you isn't moving after 10 or 15 seconds a short toot of the horn isn't declaring war. People need to calm the hell down and not take everything as a personal affront.

Color me different but I don't think the OP did a damn thing wrong.
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Then color me different as well, because I totally agree.

I suppose honking the horn is the automotive equivalent of yelling at someone.
Maybe in the future they won't come as standard equipment. Seems as though I remember a horn being on the required equipment list in some locals.
I wonder whatever for, if not sounding off at dumb-nesses.
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No, laying on your horn until they move would be yelling at them. A quick beep or two says, hey buddy, pay attention, which everyone should already be doing while operating a motor vehicle.

On the extremely rare occasion it happens to me, I usually hit the gas while shrinking down into my collar and offering an apologetic wave. It never seems to escalate. On the reverse, I never appear angry when tooting, and seem to pretty much get back the same type of thing.
 
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No, laying on your horn until they move would be yelling at them. A quick beep or two says, hey buddy, pay attention, which everyone should already be doing while operating a motor vehicle.
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This. Only a nut job would take offense at someone giving them a short, quick, quiet beep to remind them to go. While it's a good idea to make a reasonable effort to avoid antagonizing people, it doesn't make sense to go around walking on eggshells, constantly fearful of accidentally offending some nut job.
 
I never honk my horn unless it is to warn someone for safety reasons. Our messed up world is full of too many nuts. That being said, if I was alone, and I didn't initiate a confrontation, I may decide to implement my own "stand your ground" rule and wait to see what the guy decided to do. I would, of course, have my weapon cocked and locked directly under the window. That's just me. Once he displays any type of weapon or breaks through the glass...it would be nighty-night for one of us. Too much time in the military I guess.:D
 
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Just got chased by a random BUS!

I had something similar but much more bazaar happen to me a couple of years ago. I was driving on a major interstate that had construction blocking the passing lane. It was raining hard with poor visibility and I was going the posted speed and a tour bus came up behind me uncomfortably close. I had a two way radio(CB) and asked why he was tailgating me. He took offense and told me to SHUT UP or ELSE and a few other statements that I cannot repeat on this site! I had no way to let him pass me and couldn't see to go faster. Lucky for me the construction ended before he ran over me and he passed me like a bat out of He--! I was relieved about 5 minutes later when he was pulled over by a State Trooper for speeding! I was carrying my 357 at the time but it would have been of little use against a full size bus! Sometimes almost anything can set off a mentally unstable individual. The important thing is NOT to escalate the situation. This driver was not right and with innocent passengers in his bus, I was at a great disadvantage for many reasons! Sometimes you have to pick what fights you have and other times back out. In the end, I had the last laugh!
 
As told to me by Mr. Nimrod Idiot:

"Just today I had a guy honk his horn at me. I was on the highway and changing lanes. I was halfway between the middle lane and the far left lane when I became distracted by my phone. I was replying to a text message, and it was a long text message, and I was straddling the dashed line for a long time, maybe a half mile. I was also occupied with trying to sop up the beer I had spilled in my lap because I was trying to text. Between holding the phone, trying to get the beer bottle back in the cup holder, and fumbling in the glove box looking for a paper towel, I sort of drifted back into the far right lane and into the exit only lane. By the time I noticed, the exit was coming up fast. I swerved quickly out of the exit only lane, and some insane maniac who was in my blind spot honked at me... HE HONKED AT ME!!!! "

"Which let's face it, is really a threat of violence. I mean honking is practically assault. I was in fear of my life, so I drew my firearm. Well, I wasn't able to get a good grip on it, so I did not get a clean draw. After much wrenching and jerking I was finally able to get it out of the holster, but then it flew out of my hand and banged into the windshield. It bounced back into my chest and I reached for it with my left hand, and somehow my pinky got snagged on the trigger of that glock 20. Can you believe that stupid gun discharged? The 10mm bullet went into the console right below the dashboard and somehow made its way to the transmission case. Now I got a transmission leak. Thanks a lot Gaston Glock! "

"Any way, the maniac who honked at me must have seen my gun, and maybe he saw the gun go off. So now he is threatening me with his cell phone. He is calling someone, probably his mafia cohorts or some Al Queda operative, and pointing at me very aggressively. I was still trying to get a solid combat grip on the glock, when I realized my ears hurt really really bad. Now I was really mad. Not only did this terrorist assault me with his car, his horn, and now his phone, he forced me to do something which damaged my hearing. However before I could shoot him in justifiable stand my ground self defense, he found an exit and got off the highway. "

"After another mile or so I found an exit, and good thing because the warning light was on. At the gas station I discovered the transmission leak, and then the car would not go into second gear. I refilled my beer cooler in the back seat, and contemplated how lucky I was to be alive, after that vicious assault. I may not have shot the lunatic, but I firmly believe that had I not been armed, I would have further victimized. Only the sight of my glock caused him to flee."

"So my question is Do I file a police report, or just send my story to the "armed citizen" section of the NRA magazine? When will the painful ringing in my ears go away? I need to sue someone to get the money to repair my cars transmission... but who should I sue?"

.... not trying to make a point... just trying to bring some humor into the thread.
 
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Just got chased by a random car...
It was not a 'random' car kemosabe.

It was an individual you ticked off.

Do you 'randomly' honk your horn at cars to?

Deaf
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You seem to indicate he did something wrong. He didn't, kemosabe.
 
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