Regarding torture: Would people here find waterboarding (oh, sorry --
freedomboarding) acceptable if it were done to US troops? How about other rough treatment or sick acts of sexual degradation? I wonder if Ann Coulter and Rush Limbaugh would still think it was "fraternity hazing" then.
And yes, I would rather be decapitated than kept in a freezing-cold cell and waterboarded or otherwise tortured repeatedly over the course of an indefinite detention.
Getting back to terrorism per se, the US has been sponsoring Israeli terrorism for decades. (I have no problem pointing this out in spite of my own Jewish ethnic background because I'm not ethnocentric at all -- I believe the same principles of morality apply to ALL people.) We've all heard the endless refrain that Israel "has a right to defend itself," but
shooting children sitting in classrooms and firing missiles from helicopters into crowded marketplaces doesn't exactly fit my definition of "self-defense." Neither does recklessly cluster-bombing Lebanese civilian areas in retaliation for the capture of a couple of soldiers.
The reason the US continues to send more foreign aid to Israel than to any other country while vetoing every single UN resolution critical of Israel in any way (even when other countries are unanimously in favor) is because of the Zionist lobby: AIPAC, ZOA, WZO, etc.
Palestinian militants have certainly been committing terrorism as well, and theirs is every bit as reprehensible. The key differences are that (1) they need to blow
themselves up when bombing civilians in Israel, since they don't have tanks or an air force, and (2) the US hasn't been sponsoring their terrorism.
We've already invaded one country that never posed a threat to us as a "gift" to Israel. Iran is probably next. I don't know if the US will survive being stretched so thin, but the Israel-first crowd certainly doesn't care about that.
Countless other examples of US sponsorship of terrorism include the CIA's support for the brutal dictator Pinochet and the US-issued "green light" for the "dirty war" in Argentina. Oh, and let's not forget the "School of the Americas":
On September 20, 1996, the Pentagon released seven training manuals prepared by the U.S. military and used between 1987 and 1991 for intelligence training courses in Latin America and at the U.S. Army School of the Americas (SOA). According to the Third World Traveler, these manuals show how U.S. agents taught repressive techniques and promoted the violation of human rights throughout Latin America and around the globe. [6] Amnesty International describes the contents of the document to contain instructions in motivation by fear, bounties for enemy dead, false imprisonment, torture, execution, and kidnapping a target's family members. [7]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/School_of_the_americas#US_Training_Manual
If that's not terrorism, then what is?
More examples, real and alleged, here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allegations_of_state_terrorism_by_United_States_of_America
I'm not pointing all this out because I "hate America." I'm pointing it out because I hate the policy-making wing of the American government. Its hypocrisy and lies are nearly intolerable. Anyone who loves the principles America was founded upon -- the central one being universal human rights -- can't help but agree. So I agree completely with the point implied in the OP. The attitude of the US government (and many Americans who think "my country can do no wrong") is that terrorism is defined as "any violence not approved by the United States government."
If America would seal its borders, carefully screen anyone entering, and pursue the relatively isolationist foreign policy our Founders intended (George Washington specifically warned against "entangling alliances"), then we would be able to regain the moral high ground. Sure, America has done a lot of good in the world as well, and that can't be forgotten. But doing good doesn't give one the license to do evil as well.