Mikul: We'd need more structural details of what you wanted; The whole home bullet proof? Just a room? In the basement? A basement under the room? DETAILS!
My first suggestion would be to forget making slabs and moving them into place; Concrete is HEAVY, in almost all cases you want to make it in place.
I've got a good book on stone house construction using the slip-form technique; You build wooden forms, line the face pointing out with stones, and pour concrete in behind; When the concrete has set enough to support itself, you jack the form up a bit, and lay another layer of stones. Nice thing is that it doesn't require a form which can support the weight of 8 feet of concrete, and allows the construction of extremely thick walls by one or two people.
The concrete will have to rest directly on a substantial footing. (What sort of geology are you contemplating building this house on? Clay? Sand? Solid rock?)
If you can arrange for the safe room to be below grade, the dirt around the house will provide substantial protection in and of itself.
I'd propose that you go for a concrete basement, appropriately thick. A concrete (Not cinder!) block wall, with the cells filled as you go up, would be easiest. Pre-fab concrete beams can be laid over that for a floor, then a slab poured over those for sufficient thickness. Then you continue up from there with a concrete/stone wall, and berm it.
For the entrance to the basement, safe doors with steel frames which can be set into concrete are available mail order. Back that up on the other side with what appears to be the inside of a gun safe, and even if they penetrate the door they might never guess what really lies behind it!
Now, other issues arise, such as providing an alternate escape route, means of communication, et cettera. What situation did you envision needing this safe room for, anyway?
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