How to Start
So I'm almost a newby, haven't bought any reloading gear yet.
So the question to you is, how would you or other experienced reloading experts suggest I proceed?
That is very easy to answer (and THANK YOU for asking!):
Buy either the Lyman manual (any edition - no need for the 50th, just pick up the 49th for cheap) or Richard Lee's
Modern Reloading (my favorite - has info others do not, but you do need the most current reprint of the second edition, it has changed a fair amount - just make sure the cover shows a yellow medallion touting the updated information), and READ all of the text in the book up to the beginning of the load data. Read ALL of it, even chapters that you think may not apply to you - there is much to learn that will help you understand what you do not know that you do not know, thus allowing you to spot areas that need more research in the future.
Any book by a company that also sells equipment will also try to convince you that their equipment is the best - ignore all of that at first - just read and absorb the history and concepts, and especially the cautions. Once you have done that, you will already know at least as much as 50% of the people who post on here (and quite a bit more than some!).
At that point you can begin posting intelligent questions about what equipment some people prefer
and why, and your new-found knowledge will quickly allow you to sort the bonehead answers from the ones worth considering. From that point on, you can pretty much go full speed ahead. Buy good equipment, but realize that overpriced stuff in no way means that it is one bit better than other main-stream brands. When comparing one option to another, ask "how is it different", not just "what do you like". That is the key to understanding what features might be meaningful to you.
If you follow this advice, then when you do start assembling ammunition, you will be very confident with your decisions and the safety of your actions. Enjoy!