I think you're misunderstanding me. If you read what I've said, you'll see that it's not my "expectation" for any business to conduct itself this way. It's simply something I greatly
appreciate, and it's a definite point in favor of any shop that does. If it simply weren't available to me, I'd definitely deal -- just like I did during the years before I found this shop. But now that I've found my current dealer, I don't have to use anyone else.
If your FFL is as great as you say he is, then you shouldn't have any problem with him making a bad situation right if one of his employees does something he shouldn't.
I guess? He runs his business how he sees fit. I'm not going to ask him to start opening boxes as soon as they come in and take then take care of any problems his very few employees might someday create -- just like I didn't ask him not to open the boxes in the first place.
Let's face it, though, anytime you purchase a gun in a manner that requires it to be shipped, you're putting your property in the hands of a large number of unknown people who you hope will perform their jobs in such a way that it won't damage your property.
I certainly agree with that. I'm relying on the multiple FedEx/UPS/USPS employees who handle the box not to be incompetent, negligent, or malicious with my particular package (and not to be thieves, which happened with packages involving a bunch of gun shops in the Austin area a few years ago). But eliminating one possible node where problems could arise -- one that frankly is not a terribly uncommon source of complaint on gun forums -- where someone else besides the seller can physically handle the actual gun I'm buying before I see it is something I regard as a plus. That's all. I don't "expect" it of anyone. But if I were considering two similar businesses as receiving dealers, and one has the policy while the other does not, it would certainly be a point in favor of the former.
In a low-volume gun shop that might be a reasonable request to make. But in some gunshops that deal in dozens, or hundreds, or guns a day, it's simply not feasible. Too much tracking, and far too much potential for innocently violating the letter of the law.
I'm not arguing against that either. In fact, I agreed with this in the very first sentence I wrote in this thread.
And, personally, it's not even something I'd feel comfortable requesting. Like I said, I didn't have to ask for it. My dealer evidently understands that some people appreciate his having this policy, and he has evidently calculated that the costs of implementing it are outweighed by the trust, goodwill, etc. that it generates for him and his business.