I'm more at peace when I mind my own business. I don't have the spare brain cells to worry about your grips. Maybe the Georgia runoff?
Not criticizing anyone,just stating my style...I let another person pick their own grips,hat,dog,mate,briefs or boxers,etc. I don't "gift" those.
I prefer "subdued" guns. Non-eye catching. You may enjoy as you please. I also don't bother myself over another person's choices.
Likewise, I don't need approval for any of my choices. It does not much matter to me what you think of my gun.
As far as the Flag....I personally don't "use" it. I respect it.
I don't doubt you are Loving America with those grips. I have no heartburn
I like old John Prine's song "Your Flag Decal Won't Get You Into Heaven Anymore" RIP,John