The 92FS is just fine, they solved the whole cracked slide thing decades ago.
That being said, I don't think any normal gun owner is going to go out and
torture-test a M9 with 15,000 rounds in a week...of course the Army found issues!!
OP kind of answered his own question, if it feels good, the controls are where you need 'em,
that's what you buy. Don't overthink it.
Unless you live in a place where you are limited to only one gun a year,
buy what you like
That being said, chances are it's only the FIRST of MANY gun purchases
that you will make over the next ten-twenty years...so ENJOY!!
Nothing tells one what they like or don't like than going out
and shooting the BLEEP out of something...
run 1K rounds thru it and you'll know
Once you have a 92, next year get a Glock & a 1911...cover the spread
Main thing, just enjoy the hobby!!