You've tried a revolver, and SAO (1911), DAO (glock/striker), and DA/SA pistol actions, in 22lr and 9mm.
In the interest of trying different guns that fit/feel differently, I would recommend trying a DA from CZ, Sig, HK and others.
I would also recommend trying other striker-fired pistols, such as Springfield XD series, S&W M&P series.
I would also recommend trying other calibers, such as 45 acp and 40 s&w, and maybe a revolver in 38 special/357 magnum.
Find a shooting range that rents a variety of handguns to try out.
It is important to try shooting as many different kinds as practical, since often location and feel of controls does not matter until you have shot, cleaned, cleared (or at least drilled clearing) a malfunction, swapped magazines, loaded a magazine, etc. with the pistol. Grips, size and weight influence perceived recoil that won't be apparent until you have shot the handgun. The goal is to try anything you might encounter in target and defense situations.
Andy