Small, light, no recoil and accurate? In a .357 Magnum? Do you want an auto-targeting drone system that attaches to it as well?
First, accuracy on any of the revolvers is the responsibility of the shooter. Double action is probably the hardest option to master for accuracy in any revolver, and probably the hardest task to master in handguns. Single action will get you better accuracy easier, but still depends on the shooter.
A .357 Magnum is about the hardest recoiling revolver I've found in any size. I'd go so far as to say most are worse than a .44 Magnum. Gun fit, handling, size and weight make a big difference, but there goes your request for small.
So, shoot all you can find and decide for yourself. I too like the Ruger 101, but any heavy, beefy gun will be better than a lighter, smaller one. I personally think revolvers like the Airweights are ridiculous to try and shoot. Why would anyone pull the trigger a second time?
Good luck.
Jeff