No apology necessary but I have nothing but respect for someone having the integrity to offer one. That has become a rare quality with recent generations.
I was, however, also referring to the 38s in the ultra light 38s. I had a S&W 442 years ago and it was on the edge of comfortable for me to shoot. It was a bit much for my wife. A while back I bought a scandium frame Smith, I forget which model, and it was BRUTAL to shoot. The only way I would use it was with light loads and big grips. Both of which took it off my list as a carry gun. I have no clue how you guys manage those things. My wife said her mother is thinking of getting a handgun and I recommended a 3 inch steel frame 38. I think it would be perfect for an older person with little weapon experience. In the hands of an experienced shooter it can really sing. You have won me over to the revolver, but I would have to say the 3-4 inch variety before the snubby. But to each his own. My baby is the M&P 9C, when I don't carry that its a H&K P7. My pocket gun is a Ruger LCP which is a fine weapon in its own right but probably not best for the inexperienced.
I was, however, also referring to the 38s in the ultra light 38s. I had a S&W 442 years ago and it was on the edge of comfortable for me to shoot. It was a bit much for my wife. A while back I bought a scandium frame Smith, I forget which model, and it was BRUTAL to shoot. The only way I would use it was with light loads and big grips. Both of which took it off my list as a carry gun. I have no clue how you guys manage those things. My wife said her mother is thinking of getting a handgun and I recommended a 3 inch steel frame 38. I think it would be perfect for an older person with little weapon experience. In the hands of an experienced shooter it can really sing. You have won me over to the revolver, but I would have to say the 3-4 inch variety before the snubby. But to each his own. My baby is the M&P 9C, when I don't carry that its a H&K P7. My pocket gun is a Ruger LCP which is a fine weapon in its own right but probably not best for the inexperienced.