I have taught a 12 year old girl to manage a 30/30 and a 20 guage..... she's 14 now and wants to use my .270 this year...... and I am doing it again this year with her younger sister.
They need to understand that recoil is mostly subjective- if they think it will kick them, and they are scared of it, it will kick them- they won't hold onto it and it will smack them.
I start my girls with light trap loads for the shotgun and light (100 grain bullets @ 2300 f/sec) loads for the .30/30, allowing them to just "hip shoot" a couple rounds to demonstrate that the gun is not going to just fly out of their hands when they pull the trigger. Then show them that the more contact they have with the gun, the less it moves ..... secure hold on the gun, in the pocket of their shoulder (not on the arm or joint!)..... fundamentals.
They need to master the fundamentals, and it sounds like your son has (shoots clays) .... after that it is just practice. There is a danger that he'll put his eye too close to the scope.... but danger is the spice of life, and fleeing from/avoiding dangerous situations is not going to teach him anything.
They need to understand that recoil is mostly subjective- if they think it will kick them, and they are scared of it, it will kick them- they won't hold onto it and it will smack them.
I start my girls with light trap loads for the shotgun and light (100 grain bullets @ 2300 f/sec) loads for the .30/30, allowing them to just "hip shoot" a couple rounds to demonstrate that the gun is not going to just fly out of their hands when they pull the trigger. Then show them that the more contact they have with the gun, the less it moves ..... secure hold on the gun, in the pocket of their shoulder (not on the arm or joint!)..... fundamentals.
They need to master the fundamentals, and it sounds like your son has (shoots clays) .... after that it is just practice. There is a danger that he'll put his eye too close to the scope.... but danger is the spice of life, and fleeing from/avoiding dangerous situations is not going to teach him anything.