Your ideas make perfectly good sense.....but then I have a few guns that I really like a lot ...and they speak to me....
a. a well tuned 1911 - like a Wilson Combat --- 5", Protector model in all stainless...and night sights, a mag well, etc ...in 9mm is kind of unique - but if you want it in a .45 acp thats cool too.
This one is mine ..in 9mm ....and it is coming up on 35,000 rds thru it ....and its still a great gun --- everytime I touch it.../ it is the finest gun in my safe...( better than my other Wilsons even )...
An X-Five --- especially the top end one, where you can adjust the trigger is a nice gun ....here is mine in .40S&W ...but I wish I'd bought it in 9mm...
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For what its worth, I'd rank the X-Five in my top 5 guns ...but its probably # 5 and not moving up ....
A classic revolver ...like a model 27 S&W ...in 4" or a 6" barrel is the gun of my youth ...and I cannot live without at least one model 27.... Here is a 4" mod 27 in Nickel and a blued one in 6" ...the 4" Nickel brings a smile to my face, that few other guns can ...
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I have on order....a Freedom Arms large frame, 5 shot, octagon barrel, in 4 3/4" in .357 mag ...with a spec'd trigger, etc...that I expect to be delivered in a week or two ....and I expect it to take a special place in my heart....( no photo yet... but google Freedom Arms photos ...) and you'll find some ...
In my safe.....my top 5 ....
1 & 2. a pair of Wilson's one in 9mm ...one in .45 acp
3. the mod 27 4" Nickel ( it took me 10 yrs to find it - in a dash 2 model)
4. a mod 29 S&W ( .44 mag ) 8 3/8" Nickel ....(the Dirty Harry Gun) ..sort of
5. Sig X-Five in .40S&W
6 - 10 ....are all S&W revolvers....model 18's (.22 ), mod 19's .357mag in nickel, model 27's 6", mod 29's 4" ....
10 - 15 ....some more 1911's ....Ed Brown, a Kimber, a Baer..../ some more Sigs in 226 9mm and .40S&W ....
Don't know where to put the new Freedom Arms ...maybe # 4 ...or #5 ...I'll let you know in about 6 months ...after I've put a few thousand rounds thru it ...
Do they define me ...or identify with my personality ....sure !!
Will you find yours ...sure ...and you'll know it when you see it ....and when you appreciate it every day you touch it ...even after you've put 30,000 rds thru it ....or maybe more....hopefully...