I think all families have some vultures in them and some really decent people. Having seen both in my own and my wife's family just supports it. The will is meaningless until the person dies. Then you have to wonder where all the stuff you were supposed to get in the will went.
I was supposed to get a bunch of things that had deep meaning to me, but once my granfather was dead, good luck finding them. They were taken before his death by either siblings, uncles and aunts even when he made it clear who he wanted to have it.
Parents are the last ones to admit that their kids are vultures. I guess they think that after they die the behaviors that the kids exhibited all their lives will magically change. It doesn't.
I am now planning on buying a bunch of guns from my dad that I would like to have. I don't want to trust that during the days before the funeral, that siblings and relatives won't go and help themselves.
If you were supposed to get something, it should have been given prior to death. After death, you are taking your chances.
Aren't families great!
I was supposed to get a bunch of things that had deep meaning to me, but once my granfather was dead, good luck finding them. They were taken before his death by either siblings, uncles and aunts even when he made it clear who he wanted to have it.
Parents are the last ones to admit that their kids are vultures. I guess they think that after they die the behaviors that the kids exhibited all their lives will magically change. It doesn't.
I am now planning on buying a bunch of guns from my dad that I would like to have. I don't want to trust that during the days before the funeral, that siblings and relatives won't go and help themselves.
If you were supposed to get something, it should have been given prior to death. After death, you are taking your chances.
Aren't families great!