SaxonPig: the issue with the hot 125s is that they're moving like a bat outta hell when they hit the forcing cone. With 158s, even if the speed at the muzzle is in the same ballpark between two loads, the "impact speed" at the forcing cone is significantly different, and slowwer for the 158.
Plus the Ks have a weak spot at the lowest section of the forcing cone (rear end of the barrel just ahead of the cylinder).