A "hot .40" is NOT in the same power class as a " hot 10MM "
Think of it as .38Spl and .357Mag ------ with a "hot .38 " who would need a .357Mag
I believe the Holy Grail of SD ballistics is a 200 gr. JHP traveling at 1,000-1,100.
The 45+P can do it, the .44 Mag & Sp. can do it, the 10mm and now the .40 Double Tap can do it too (DoubleTap Ammunition 40 S&W 200 Grain Hornady XTP) with a 5 inch barrel handgun (Beretta 90-2 & Glock 35 come to mind).
The versatility of the 10mm is undeniable but limiting the controversy to SD scenarios, there are better choices for me. The 10mm will keep living in it's niche: versatility.