<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by folkbabe:
Additionally, listening is a way to build community. I'm not interested in debating with people, I'm interested in connecting with them.
[I've discussed this a bit with my friends who illegally own guns (who I know through different circles than my friends who hold legal guns) but their perspective is very different from most of yours. If it helps on the feel/want/need issue that's the way I talk in general. It may partly be a gender socialization thing. (women are socialized to talk about "feelings" while men are socialized to talk about "thinking". It's useful to me to know that it upsets/alienates folks who are into guns for me to talk that way.
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If your interested in "connecting" with people I would suggest participant observation take a gun safty course. Also perhaps a low level quality self defense class. I would also recomend Jeff Cooper's book "Principals of Personal Defense" which deals with the psychology of defense from a application perspective.
I would be interested in hearing the perspective of the "illegal" gun owners you know. Also are they people involved in other criminal activities? Or are they just illegal because they are not rich, white, or law enforcement [DC & NYC are like that]?
Do you have any cultural sociologist or social anthropologist on your team? Do you address domestic violence?
Additionally, listening is a way to build community. I'm not interested in debating with people, I'm interested in connecting with them.
[I've discussed this a bit with my friends who illegally own guns (who I know through different circles than my friends who hold legal guns) but their perspective is very different from most of yours. If it helps on the feel/want/need issue that's the way I talk in general. It may partly be a gender socialization thing. (women are socialized to talk about "feelings" while men are socialized to talk about "thinking". It's useful to me to know that it upsets/alienates folks who are into guns for me to talk that way.
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If your interested in "connecting" with people I would suggest participant observation take a gun safty course. Also perhaps a low level quality self defense class. I would also recomend Jeff Cooper's book "Principals of Personal Defense" which deals with the psychology of defense from a application perspective.
I would be interested in hearing the perspective of the "illegal" gun owners you know. Also are they people involved in other criminal activities? Or are they just illegal because they are not rich, white, or law enforcement [DC & NYC are like that]?
Do you have any cultural sociologist or social anthropologist on your team? Do you address domestic violence?